Now close your eyes and think of sometime that someone did something really nice for/to you. Did it change your mood? Did it brighten your day up a little bit? If being kind to someone makes someone's mood even slightly better then they won't spread as much negativity as they would have before that gesture was performed. Or if they were already in a good mood, then it must have/might have made their mood even better, and then they can spread even more positivity than they did before. Kindness, positivity, and a happy aura can completely change your life, and other peoples lives forever.
So I feel like after all of the recent darkness that has been happening internationally, I would post this about kindness, and how to spread it. Kindness is kind of like a chain reaction. If you are kind to someone, or one person then that person will feel more inclined to be more kind to others. If you are always kind, then people will start to notice, and start doing more kind gestures to others. Positivity is also something that rubs off onto people, and can completely change their lives forever, so make sure to spread that as well.
By being more positive and happy, not only will you touch others lives,but you will touch your life as well. I know that when I am trying to look, act, and be positive in general, soon I feel like a better person, and I become happier myself. In general this will just help everyone. It is a complete ripple effect, and if you and everyone else who sees this post becomes a little bit more positive and happy in your life, it will make a huge difference in the world, one that you might not even know that happened. If you spread this message to people then the possibilities of making this world a better place are/is endless. If you don't know what to do or how to become more kind and positive then here are some things that I think are great ways to start out!
#1 SMILE
I once read somewhere that if you walk into a/the store with a smile on your face, and whenever you make eye contact with someone you smile, then that person will most likely reciprocate or at least have their mood lightened a little bit. When you talk to someone you don't know/a stranger, such as a waitor or waitress, or a cashier at the grocery store then they will be uplifted by your friendliness.
#2 Never ever be mean to anyone else
Nothing justifies being rude, or mean to someone, unless it is in physical self defense. If you don't like someone or someone is being unkind to you then politely ask them to stop, and if they don't leave the situation, ignore them,and just remember that you are above them because you have the heart not to be mean or rude to someone! People will be inspired by this and want to be more like you! Also you don't know what their situation is like when you are not there, they might have a problem at home or something of that sort!
#3 Never say that anything is impossible, especially to someone else
Since my dream is something that is very difficult to accomplish, but I am trying as hard as I can to make it happen, I know personally what having someone say this to you feels like. ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE if you dedicate yourself entirely to it, and work as hard as you can to make it happen! Believe in yourself and others. Never knock anyone down!
#4 Never make fun of someone for doing what they love
What makes people unique is what they do for fun, and what they do for love. How would you feel if someone kept on harassing you for what you liked to do? Even if you feel like you are just making a joke with someone or that you are being sarcastic, well that little thing can ruin someone's day. Make it a point to tell people that what they like to do seems cool and fun. This will make people more confident in what they like to do, especially if they were nervous about doing it before, because of what people might say to them!
#5 Never ever make fun of anyone in general
This is just mean! Everyone is who they are in their own way. Let them be themselves. The reason so many people have trouble being themselves is because they are afraid of how others, and other people will react. They are afraid that they will be made fun of. So even if it is sarcasm please do not make fun of anyone no matter what!
#6 Make little acts of kindness
Small and random acts of kindness can make someone's day. Whether it is picking up something that someone dropped, or playing with a little kid who looks lonely at the beach! You can do things such as surprising a friend or a family member by washing the dishes for them or helping with a project they have been working on, can make a huge difference!
#7 Offer help to those in need of advice/physical help, help
If someone needs help, THEN HELP THEM! It is important to help people so they can have an easier, and a happier life. By doing small or large things to help out you will give more people the belief that humanity is good and kind, and inspire others to be kind as well!
#8 Never abandon someone in need
Even if you don't know the person, if someone is in need, help them! If they need someone to talk to, then be that person. Also if someone you do know is in need of help, then stick with them. Don't abandon them because it is becoming to difficult, or because they are having too many problems for you to deal with! Just be a nice kind person, and stick it out, and help them get through what they are going through!
#9 Try to make your tone of voice sound nice, and sweet instead of grumpy
If you sound like you are in a bad mood, even if what you are saying IS nice and kind, then people might take it the wrong way, and might mistake it for you being in a bad mood. This little thing might rub off on them and make them a little more negative that day as well, so try and sound nice, and polite as well! Also if someone treats
#10 Forgive people for their mistakes
As the wise Hannah Montana once said, "everybody makes mistakes, and everyone has those days". But in all seriousness, this is very true, and it is important to make sure that you forgive those around you for those mistakes, unless they are physically harming to others. Instead of never talking to them again, try giving them some advice, to keep what happened from happening again. How would you feel if you made one mistake, and everyone hated you for the rest of your life for it!
#11 Give people advice in the nicest ways possible
If you are trying to help someone out for the better, make sure that when you say it it is nice. If you say something like, YOU ARE SO MEAN then people will react negatively to that, but if you say "hey you should try to be a little bit nicer to people" in a calm tone, then people will react better, and maybe even follow your advice!
#12 Never let someone's bad mood rub off on you!
And even if you do everything you can to try to make someone's day better, and they are STILL in a bad mood, don't let it change your day! Brush it off and keep on being positive and kind!
This is an important message to spread, so please do just that, spread it! Whether you spread it by being kind or by sharing this post, just do it! This world needs more kindness in it, and by even one more person being kind, it can make a huge difference. Because that person can lead to other people, and then those to more, and etc. Help the world out and be kind!
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This is a great post, If only everyone took note of these points, peoples lives would be more positive. ♥ HWY29
ReplyDeleteThank you so much<3 It would be! That's why I am trying to spread this message as much as possible! <3
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